We are a family that have been expecting our second child for over four years now. We started the adoption process in the spring of 2006, submitted our paperwork to China in September of 2006 and have been waiting patiently for a child since. We finally we got our referral and plan to have the process completed and travel to China this coming spring!

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Is it really a surprise if you were expecting it for 4 1/2 years?


After 4 and a half years of waiting we finally got the call. It was a call at 11:45 at night but who needs sleep anyway. I was woken out of my sound sleep by DW who just happened to still be up working at that time and answered the phone since she thought someone must be dead or in the hospital. However, it was the exception to the late night phone call where we were told that our agency had a match for us. So I was woken up, without DW actually telling me why I had to get on the phone, and after hearing the conversation I started to realize what we were talking about. However, i did hear something about triplets and am not sure if that was still being asleep or no,t but it woke me up real fast. Not triplets for us, but the agency did have a little girl for us, a 2 1/2 year old (HOLY COW!) She was emailing the medical packet and pictures to us via email right now and they needed a decision by 6pm our time the next day. Only Twelve hours. No pressure there.

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That was a LONG 10 minutes to wait for that email. While waiting I thought how odd it was to have someone call me at almost midnight, tell me I have a 2 1/2 year old daughter, over 6,000 miles away, and I can't just go get her but have to wait. For probably 6 months. DING! "You have mail!" (actually, I don't have AOL but this would have been the one time that sound wouldn't have been annoying)

Then we saw her for the first time...



I didn't care about her medical records anymore. She was my daughter from that point.

We did, of course, have the medicals reviewed by our doctor and got a second opinion from DW's friend who works at a hospital in another city and both said that everything was good. So we made the phone call to the Agency with at least 30 minutes to spare. Now. We wait. And price some flights.